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daily musings of a vintage addict * I am totally obsessed with all things vintage * trying to keep up with my past...and sometimes ordinary everyday life

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I live in Australia, my ancestry is in Cornwall. a Celt. a hedgewitch of sorts. I am an Earth Healer. I wear upcycled clothes, patchouli oil and Redback boots. A gypsy. An eccentric. a mystic. I am a searcher, a seeker, a pilgrim on Earth. I serve my guests, tea from an old silver teapot. I love Vervain, yarrow, chamomile & mint. I love to dream, to walk and to wonder

Plan ahead and dream of all the beautiful things that life has to offer

March 02, 2006

*life*


why is it that so many of us feel guilty about 'stuff' and worry constantly about things ? well - my theory is this: on the day we are born and the Dr grabs us by the legs and lifts us up and pronounces 'it's a girl' - the nurses run for the stamp that says GUILT and they stamp that word so hard into our forehead, that it is there forever and it rears its ugly head each and every day of our lives. Take time out each of you and just BE xoxo
Nicole's gift to you

Anger, frustration, confusion, denial, and desperation are all actually part of
the process of parenting. Parents who tell you that they never have these
feelings are not coming clean. Parenting will test everything you’ve got, and in
solving problems and helping your child through new experiences (wonderful and
painful), you will know a kind of joy that simply can’t be found any other way.
Parenting will be the ultimate life-experience gift you give to yourself. It is
better than graduating high school or finishing a two-year quilting project,
better than bungee jumping, and better than being promoted at work. But, to get
there, you’ve got to turn your energies toward enjoying the experience of being
a parent. You’ve got to empower yourself by recognizing that you’re going to
experience those negative feelings, and ditching the guilt associated with them.
Once this happens, you can give yourself permission to feel good about what you
are doing as a parent. And your kids will feel good about having you as their
parent!

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8 Comments:

Blogger Nicole said...

I am humbled.. You are a good woman! Thank you.

12:00 am  
Blogger QueenConch said...

That was wonderful, I try to be "ME" and just "BE" every day. My five children re-inforce this daily as I have tried to let them be who they are.

3:46 am  
Blogger Sharon K said...

What a good post my friend. It is so true about the guilt thing. I find myself always feeling guilty, I will remember your blog each time I get the guilt trip thing in my head. Thanks.

4:53 am  
Blogger Kali said...

It is something that does try to rear it's ugly head, and I tackle within me everyday...I will not let it beat me down though!
this post is a great reminder to us all, that it's so common, but we shouldn't let it consume us. THANKS!!

8:18 am  
Blogger Devra said...

Greetings! Great to see our words made it to The Land Down Under! We had hoped the book would travel to parents far and wide. If you know of a group/organization which might be interested in invited Aviva and me to Australia, please get in touch with us.

1:55 pm  
Blogger berriehead said...

Yup so true...we always have the guilts for some odd reason or another...mad has a habit of saying she's sorry even when she has no need to be sorry.. what is with that? loved this post:o) it's good to remember!

2:23 pm  
Blogger Kerri said...

Great thoughts to ponder! Thank you. Loved the thoughts about parenting too. Will share them with my kids :)

11:57 pm  
Blogger Garden girl said...

oh robyn I hear you!! is there any way of getting that guilt stamp off the forehead..does nailvarnish remover work? lol...

3:13 pm  

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